Constant focus on a desired outcome creates Power and is the only way to achieve the results we want. If we want something, then we must invest our energy, enthusiasm, thoughts and actions with the desired outcome everyday for as long as it takes to achieve that outcome we desire.
What stops people is they experience a setback or two on the road to Creating what they want and then they give up on themselves and the dream, they believe themselves incapable, unworthy OR they allow less important things to distract them (like Facebook, partying & crap relationships) and they never cultivate enough inner power to create what they want. If you want something then align every action, word, belief and intention with that special something. Move forward with absolute certainty that it is you and only YOU that can create your vision and that every single particle of Creation is here as your ally, helping this intention to be so.
Everything else in your life that is NOT what you want must be lovingly let it go of or have the energy transformed, so you can make the necessary space for the people, practices and possibilities that are aligned with your desire to show up. Creating is simple. It just takes owning your Creatorship in this experience, honouring your Power and having patience with the process because it might take more than ten+ years to create what you want (but damn, what a journey). If life is not how you wish it to be then take full responsibility for yourself and all that is, in fact celebrate it (it helps release resistance)… Then recognize that you are wonderfully Powerful exactly as you are and let this moment be the New Now to begin your Quest with this download of inspiration.